Thursday, March 6, 2008

MAKSUDNYA?

Gini loh...para pria bilang wanita itu complicated, bilang A padahal maksudnya B (masa sih? sebagai wanita saya ngrasa ga se-complicated itu ;p) well, lagian kayaknya pria juga sama aja, bilang C maksudnya sih D

So ladies, masi bingung apa makna di balik kata-kata pria?
this may help you decode what his cutting lines truly mean ;p (saya copy dari artikel di Yahoo! by David Zinczenko)

Dia bilang IT'S NOT ME, IT'S YOU
Maksudnya "It's not me, it's you."

One-third of men admit that they're lying when they blame themselves for the demise of the relationship. Of course, they're trying to soften the blow a bit - to ensure that you know you're a great person, a caring person, a person who's perfectly right... for someone else. After all, if you were the right one (for him), it wouldn't matter whether his mind was somewhere in Iceland; he'd find a way to make it work.

Dia bilang I'M NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW
Maksudnya "Whoa baby, slow down!"

Most guys - though they can come off as more desperate than a brewhound in a dry county - take their time testing the relationship waters. If a woman comes on too fast - with talk of futures, or of how she's never felt this way before - then the man often will be likely to retreat. Fast. It's not that he's not ready for a relationship; it's just that he's not ready to decide whether "Mony Mony" should be in the second or third set of the reception playlist.

Dia bilang CAN I CALL YOU SOMETIME?
Maksudnya "If you're ever lonely at 3 a.m. on a Saturday night...."

Well, he may or may not be that crass, but he is trying to keep the door cracked. If he's the one who's doing the ditching, then he's (unfairly, mind you) trying to lead you to believe that a break will strengthen the possibilities of some kind of rekindled romance in the future. If he's the victim, then he's trying to hang onto any slim chance he may have in the future with you (or possibly one of your friends).

Dia bilang I STILL CARE ABOUT YOU
Maksudnya "Please don't tell your friends I'm a jerk."

Truth is, he probably does care about you. Still cares that you do well, that you find someone, that you get what you want in life. But what he's also saying is, please don't tell all your friends to cross me off their lists. The relationship may be broken, but it's a pretty big concern that his reputation remains intact.

yak, teman-teman, demikian kalimat sakti yang jadi andalan para pria untuk menghindari hubungan yg lebih serius atau mo mutusin pasangannya, mengingatkan anda pada.......(silakan isi titik-titiknya dengan nama pria yang anda kenal he he ;p )

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

pada siapaaaaa huaayyooo??? wakakakak...